Hi, you've started on a journey that will take you to a new future... you're new future! It has to do with three forces that you will master to help you navigate in your world... and beyond.

These forces are IQ...EQ...SQ

IQ is the Intelligence Quality you have,

EQ is the Emotional Quality you have,

SQ is the Social Quality you have.

It has been said "We are what we think". In WYN we believe that is au undisputed truth:

We Are What We Think; Feel and Do in relationship to others.

This is the essence of IQ, EQ, SQ. Let's look at each of these in more detail, and how you can discover these skills within you and make them stronger and more powerful, to take you where you want to go in life!

This is the Intelligence Quality you have, it is the measure of how well you 'think'about a problem. Often a problem appears to be so big that no solution is in sight and some people give up then. In reality, there is no problem too big to solve if you break it down in to small enough pieces. It's how the world has improved so much from the caveman days to our Rockets to the Stars.

If you think about a problem long enough you will find solutions, it just takes a little time. However, on it's own it's just a measure of how well you think, it's another matter to be able to express that in words after you find out how you 'feel' about the thing you're thinking about.

This is often a place where many people come to a grinding halt.

This is the Emotional Quality you have, it is the measure of how well you observe and handle your feelings. Often a problem goes away when you realize how you 'really' feel about it, and act on those feelings. However, it's not as easy as just doing what ever you feel like, that could be irresponsible to others. Instead you have to consider carefully how you feel and think about what is the right course of action based on how you feel.

Once you have learned how to integrate your thoughts and feelings, you're two thirds of the way to solving the problem.

The last thing you have to do is to work out how to carry out your decision with the least opposition and with out hurting anyone. That's where our next skill comes in!

This is where it all comes together. You know how you feel about something, you've thought about it in detail and now you want to carry out your plans with the least disruption to your life or anyone else. That's called Social Skills. How to 'get ahead by getting along' with people.

Often this is the hardest third of the puzzle. There are your feelings to consider, the other peoples feelings to consider, your plans and desires and their plans and desires. Your aims and possible hidden agendas, and their wishes and hidden agendas. Hidden agendas are often just parts of IQ, or EQ that has not been worked out, if it was all worked out, they wouldn't be 'hidden' agendas, just agendas.

Social Skills come in to play more when there are groups of people, that's when you have to juggle everyone's feelings and not just your own. Once you have mastered this last skill there is nothing that can stop you from being who or what you want to be.